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Ther州n.andclasstea《陆@矿mLker校长太太和班主任MissParkerYueiiealsotoldmethatheIikestheheadmasterofthesch001.Thechildrenoftengototheheadmaster’sofficetovisit.Theheadmasterisverykindtothem.ItmademethinkofhowdifierentmyexperienceswereindealingwithYuejie。sheadmasterinChinabeforego-inqtoCanada.Noteventheparents，Ietalonethechildren，werewillingtomeettheheadmasterandthedeanofthesch001.Theirsolemnfacesandarrogantattitudesreallyputmeoff.另外，越杰告诉我，他很喜欢校长太太，孩子们常去校长室，校长对他们非常礼貌也很和蔼。这让我回想起出国前和越杰国内学校校长打交道的经历。别说孩子，连大人都很不愿意去见校长和教导主任。他们过于铁面无私的面子L以及不怎么尊重人的态度让我每次都心生恐惧。Howm垆㈡loveme?爱我有多深?reachersoftensaytothechildren”110veyou”.IIearnedalotfrOmthis.Oneday,1wenttopickupYuejieaftersch001.Humminqatunewhilewalk-ingleisurely,helookedsocute.Isaidtohim，”Iloveyou，Yuejie.Doyouloveme?”.Hesmiledandsaid，”lloveyou”.”Howmuch?”，Icontinued.Hethoughtforawhileandsaid，”Asbigasawa。termelon.”Isaidtohimjokingly,”Sosmall!”Icontinued，’‘DoyouknowhowmuchIIoveyou?Themoonrepresentsmyheart.”Hewaspuzzled，”whyisitthemoon7”TothisIsaid.”BecausemyIoveforyouisasbeautifuIasthemoon.”1wentonwiththesamequestion，”HowNotonlydothekidsreallyliketheheadmaster,theyarealsoveryclosetotheirteachers.TheyoftencalItheirclassteacher”MissParker”.MissParkeroftenusesverylovingwordstoaddressthechildren，suchas”dear”，”darling”，”honey”.。’sweetheart”and”sweetie”Thepoliteexpressions”thanks”and’。please”areoften『_11：≯j紧_i。懿一—.二-—目露圈瞄——_┗┛heardwhenteachersandkidsareinteracting.PerhapsthisisthebiggestdifierencebetweenChineseandoverseasteacherswhentheyaredealingwiththeirstudents.IrememberreadingsomenewspaperarticlesaboutChinesestudentshatingtheirteach-muchdoyoulovemethen?”Hethoughtaminuteandreplied，”Asdeepasthesky.”Iamnotsurehowdeeptheskyis，butIfelthappyatwhathehadsaid.常听见老师们对孩子说：“我爱你”，从他们的言语中我也学到了不少。有一天去接越杰放学，看他慢慢悠悠的边走嘴里还哼着小曲儿，样子很可爱。于是便对着他说：“越杰我爱你，你爱我吗?”越杰笑眯眯地告诉我说：“我爱你”，我又问：“你爱我有多深?”越杰想了想说：“有西瓜那么大”，我开玩笑的说：“那么小啊，你知道我有多爱你吗?月亮代表我的心”。越杰看着我迷惑地问：“为什么是月亮?”“因为我对你的爱就像月亮一样美。”我又问：“那你爱我有多深?”他想了想ersorevenseekingrevengeontheminsomeveryextremeways.Thisisveryshockingtome.Thewaytheheadmas-terandMissParkerinteractissome—thingthatshouldbelearnedfrOm.Here，everysmileandhugfrOmtheteachersmakethekidsfeelwarm.TheytrustandIoveeachotherjustlikeclosefriends.其实，孩子们不光喜欢校长，大家和老师的关系也很亲密。常听同学们直接称呼班主任老师MissParker，而Parker,J~姐也常常把“dea‘darling，hone~sweetheart，sweetie”这些亲昵的称呼挂在嘴边。当然，“thanks”和“please”这些礼貌用语更是在老WiltOn孩子交谈过程中常常听到。这也许是国内外师生相处模式最大的不同之处了。记得曾经看到报纸上一些关于国内学生憎恨老师，甚至对老师采取过激报复行动的报道，非常震撼。像校长和MissParker这样和孩子的交谈方式以及尊重的态度倒是值得借鉴。在这里，老师的每一个微笑和拥抱都使孩子们感觉备受宠爱，他们相处的就像知心朋友，互相信赖和依恋。说：“像太空一样深。呵呵，太空也能用来形容深?不过我心里还是喜滋滋的。TheChinesedon’toftenexpresstheirfeelings.Evenwhentheylovesomeone，theyneveropentheirmouthstosayit.Butinthewest，peoplearemoreopenanddirectineducatingthechildrenaboutexpressinglove.ThereforewealsooftensaytoYuejie：”weloveyou“or”weIikeyou”.Yuejieisalwayshappytohearthis.中国人的情感是含蓄的，常常是“爱你在心口难开”。但是在西方，孩子们爱的教育是开放的、直接的、易于理解的。于是我们也经常对越杰说“爱你，喜欢你”，每当这时候越杰总是笑嘻嘻很开心的样子。